August 13, 2012
by Dishy Divorcee
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I hate feeling uncertain; that feeling of zero control. It’s a childhood problem that stems from a fear of flying. You know, the idea that you’re coasting along at 35,000 feet, with no safety net? It scares the crap out … Continue reading
July 28, 2012
by Dishy Divorcee
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Co-dependency. Just the word makes me shiver. I hate the idea of being co-dependent on anything or anyone. When I turned 18 and graduated from college, I was the girl who couldn’t wait to leave home and move out of … Continue reading
December 29, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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A friend warned me earlier this year about post-divorce dating. He said that during the first year, most people madly attempt to secure their next “relationship” for fear of being alone. This DOES NOT apply to me. I don’t search … Continue reading
September 21, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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What is normal? Your guess is as good as mine. I had a brush with crazy this last week. You know how guys are always complaining about all the “psycho women” out there? Well, I think I might have acted … Continue reading
September 20, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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I have this re-occurring dream. I’m sitting on a cold metal chair in the elementary school auditorium, 50 lbs over weight and miserable, while my ex-husband sits with his new wife, our kids and her kids all cozy in a … Continue reading
September 13, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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So far, dating post divorce has been less than ideal. Of course, I don’t really know what an “ideal” dating scenario is, but here is the rundown so far: Bachelor #1 (see post): Fresh out of rehab, this Dockers wearing dentist … Continue reading
August 8, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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New post alert: this is not one of my light-hearted topics, but I hope you’ll read on… I’ve been confused about the topic of “women-cheaters” ever since I learned of my husband’s infidelity. Here is a brief recap: 1, Jack … Continue reading
August 5, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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So far, post-divorce dating is a bust. My first date was with a 38 year-old dentist. We got along great. I learned about the dentist and his single-status from a friend. He was going through a tough separation, had filed … Continue reading
August 4, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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There was only one explanation for my behavior. My fight or flight instinct must have kicked in the day my husband disclosed his multiple affairs; because, somehow, I held it together. In fact, I left him standing in the middle … Continue reading
July 25, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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Hello all, I’ve decided to start an upbeat forum on twitter for men and women who have gone through the emotional upheaval of divorce. Based on all the comments and tweets out there, I’m pretty sure there are zillions of us (as … Continue reading