The Dishy Divorcee

Finding strength after the emotional betrayal of loving a Sex Addict

July 28, 2012
by Dishy Divorcee
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Co-Dependency – don’t box me in.

Co-dependency.  Just the word makes me shiver.  I hate the idea of being co-dependent on anything or anyone. When I turned 18 and graduated from college, I was the girl who couldn’t wait to leave home and move out of … Continue reading

July 25, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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#DivorceChat – New Forum on Twitter – TONIGHT

Hello all, I’ve decided to start an upbeat  forum on twitter for men and women who have gone through the emotional upheaval of divorce.  Based on all the comments and tweets out there, I’m pretty sure there are zillions of us (as … Continue reading

June 27, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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Sex Addict Myth: I read a book, therefore, I’m cured.

Wouldn’t it be great if it were this easy?  If all it took was reading a self-help book, think how many Tony Robbins-Martha Stewart-Deepak Chopras would exist.  There’d be no reason to judge anyone ever again; no reason to hate on … Continue reading

June 23, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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Sex addict myth: If you love me, you’d put up with it.

Why should you have to? If he respected you and wasn’t a sex addict, you wouldn’t be put into this situation, right? While I had the forethought to open a bank account and find a rental home, I didn’t immediately … Continue reading

June 13, 2011
by Dishy Divorcee
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The Great Evasion (relocating a sex addict)

Back in 2005, my husband and I were one newly-built-home, two jobs and two kids into our marriage. I loved Colorado; the climate, nearby hiking, and had many new-found friendships. The only piece missing was our extended family; they lived a thousand miles away … Continue reading